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Normalize: Not Liking Someone Without Conflict

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Let’s talk about something we don’t discuss enough. It’s okay to not like someone and still have zero drama attached to it.

In a world that thrives on subtweets, unfollows, and messy group chats, we’ve been conditioned to believe that if you don’t vibe with someone, it automatically means there’s beef. But here’s the truth:

Not everyone is for you, and that’s okay.

Sometimes personalities just don’t click. Maybe the energy feels off, the conversation doesn’t flow, or you simply don’t enjoy being around them. It doesn’t make them a bad person, and it doesn’t make you one either. It just means you’re not each other’s people and that’s normal.

I’m taking this lesson to heart in my own life. I no longer overly obligate myself to enter spaces that I do not want to go into. I am intently choosing to be in the company of people I genuinely want to be around, and I do it without feeling bad about my standard. My peace and my energy matter more than forcing myself into circles that don’t align with me.

I’m no longer a people pleaser and enjoy walking to my own beat more and more as I practice my boundaries!

This is your reminder that:

You don’t owe anyone forced friendships. Boundaries don’t require explanations. Walking away doesn’t require a dramatic exit.

Peaceful disconnection is a form of self-care. No side-eyes, no gossip, no silent wars. Just quiet acceptance that your paths don’t align.

So, let’s normalize this:

“I don’t dislike you. I just don’t vibe with you and that’s perfectly fine.”

Your energy is too valuable to waste on forcing connections that don’t feel right. Protect your peace and let everyone exist where they belong without tension.

💬 Your Turn:

Have you ever quietly stepped back from someone without it being a big deal?

Share your thoughts in the comments.

I’d love to hear your perspective on protecting your peace without the drama.

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Wine, Wealth & Winning Together

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There’s something powerful about being in a space filled with driven, purpose-led people, men and women who are committed to growth, connection, and financial empowerment.

This weekend, I had the pleasure of attending the Wine & Wealth financial empowerment workshop hosted by the incredible Sammi. The energy in the room was magnetic. From the dynamic speaker lineup to the intentional conversations being had, this event was rich in wisdom, connection, and inspiration.

One thing I was reminded of is that networking isn’t just about exchanging business cards. It’s about planting seeds for future collaborations, partnerships, and friendships. The people you meet at events like this could be the same people you launch something with next year, co-host a panel with, or simply build meaningful relationships with that feed your soul and elevate your life. Whether it’s expanding your business or your social circle, stepping into the right rooms matters.

It was beautiful to witness so many of my peers thriving in their purpose, showing up confidently in their business, and being open to building genuine relationships. These spaces are needed more than ever.

Instagram Recap

A special thank you to my VIP sisters @nurse_memwa and @solotravelbestie for sharing the evening with me. Your presence, insight, and love were deeply felt.

If you’re ready to monetize your gifts, start your business, or push yourself into your next level, now is the time to stop playing small and start taking aligned action.

Visit www.10k30daypush.com to learn how to turn your ideas into income and launch with strategy and support.

And if you’re looking for a community that nurtures your purpose and keeps you focused on mind, body, and spirit alignment, be sure to follow @divinealignedcollective and connect with the movement.

Your next level is not a dream. It’s a decision.

#WineAndWealth #DivineAndAligned #10K30DayPush #BuildWithPurpose #MonetizeYourGifts #EntrepreneurLife #FinancialFreedom #KingdomBusiness #MindBodySpiritSuccess #NetworkingMatters #PurposeOverProfit #AlignedConnections

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Rest in Peace (While You’re Still Alive)

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I used to think rest was earned! Something you got after the to-do list was cleared, the house was quiet, and the work was done.

But anxiety taught me otherwise.

There was a season in my life when I wore every role like armor:

Homeschooling mom. Business owner. Wife. Friend. Sister. Project manager.

I was doing all the things and trying to hold it together with a prayer and a planner.

But the weight caught up to me.

Anxiety wasn’t just a feeling. It became physical. My body carried what my mind refused to release. I had headaches, body pain, tension in places I didn’t even know could hold stress. I was overwhelmed, burnt out, and spiritually drained.

I had to give up.

Not in a depressive, “I quit life” kind of way, but in a freeing, “God, I surrender what I cannot control” way.

I had to let go of the illusion that anxiety was helping me hold it all together. It wasn’t. It was robbing me of my peace.

And guess what?

Worry never solved the problem.

Anxiety never brought clarity.

Fear never added value.

So I started asking different questions:

What would it feel like to rest in peace now, and not just after the storm? What if calm could exist within the chaos? What would it mean to prioritize my peace over my productivity?

Friend, maybe you need to give up too.

Give up the belief that it’s all on you.

Give up the need to control every outcome.

Give up the lie that anxiety keeps you prepared.

You don’t need to earn peace. You just have to allow it.

God is not glorified in your exhaustion. He is glorified in your trust.

Let This Be Your Invitation

If you’re tired of living from crisis to crisis and ready to live on purpose, I want to personally invite you to join my women’s coaching group: the Divine Aligned Collective.

Together, we walk through 7 key life domains. From spiritual wellness to relationships, purpose, finances, self-care, and more. We’re not just surviving—we’re creating lives we love, with peace and alignment at the center.

Follow us on Instagram: @DivineAlignedCollective

Join the email list for tools, encouragement, and updates: CLICK HERE

Your life doesn’t have to be perfect to be peaceful.

You can rest now. While you’re still alive.

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Monetizing your skills isn’t hard in 2025!

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Let me go ahead and say it… monetizing your skills in 2025 is not hard. We are in a season where technology is literally doing half the work for us, and the only thing standing between you and extra income might just be you overthinking it.

We’ve got AI tools, done-for-you content templates, and payment processors that can be set up in minutes. You can create, market, and sell your offers right from your phone! Yes, even during nap time or on your lunch break.

Whether you’re a gifted encourager, a beauty guru, a problem solver, or someone who knows how to make life just a little bit easier for others, there’s space for you to show up and get paid.

Here’s Why It’s So Easy Now:

AI is doing the heavy lifting. Whether you need captions, email copy, or content ideas tools like ChatGPT are basically free assistants. Content creation is a breeze. Canva, Instagram, and other platforms make it simple to create beautiful posts, digital products, and videos without a tech background. Getting paid is instant. Stripe, PayPal, and Gumroad are plug-and-play. No hoops. No stress. Just drop your link and start collecting coins.

So if you’ve been waiting for the “right time” to launch, the time is now. You already have everything you need.

3 Simple Ways to Start Monetizing Your Skills:

1. Turn What You Know Into a Product

That skill or gift you overlook? Someone else needs it. Whether it’s a guide, a course, or a one-on-one session, put it in a format people can buy.

2. Start Creating Consistent Content

You don’t have to go viral to get paid. Just show up consistently. Give value. Talk to your people like you’re talking to your sister. That’s what builds connection and connection leads to conversions.

3. Make It Easy for People to Pay You

Don’t wait until it’s “perfect.” Set up a simple checkout link and start sharing it. Link it in your bio, your email, your text messages, or wherever your people are.

You’ve got something valuable to offer. The world needs it, and there’s no reason you can’t get paid for it. Let’s stop sitting on our gifts.

Want the step-by-step on how to start making money online?

Grab my Digital Dollars ebook and get and introduction to how to offer your skills and knowledge online!

Click here to get your copy now!

You were built for more and this is your season to show up and cash in on your calling.

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Lets hold one another accountable! (see video)

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🖤 Be patient and compassionate
🖤 Hold one another accountable
🖤 Get connected
🖤 Take Action

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